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我的丈夫杰里米(Jeremy)添加了所有“花花公子”和所有有趣的东西。我把它留在里面!

我真的很想知道为什么这家伙会回避购买珠宝

我对世界其他地方一无所知,但是对于这位圣塔芭芭拉珠宝商来说,这是一个谜。为什么男人不为女人戴珠宝呢?

公平地说,你们中有些人这样做。我知道。我已经将它卖给了您,并且多次出售。要走的路,杜德!

多年来,我整理了一份心理清单,列出了男性为什么不购买女性珠宝的借口。想听听吗?开始。

男人不买女人珠宝的十五个理由

  1. “我不知道我妻子喜欢什么。”杜德!跟女人聊天……或者跟她最好的朋友聊天,或者跟她的珠宝商聊天!
  2. “她从不要求珠宝。”参见#1。
  3. “上一次我给她买东西时,她用它换了其他东西。”所以你轻易放弃了吗?别哭了,伙计!
  4. “珠宝太贵了。”我儿子花了三十美元给他的女朋友买了一条非常漂亮的纯银项链。您不必让她获得Hope钻石。
  5. “She complained about how much it cost.” But secretly 爱d it. Acknowledge her and move on. She’s wearing it isn’t she?
  6. “Jewelry is frivolous. It’s unnecessary.” Something that 象征永恒的爱 is not frivolous.
  7. “She buys her own jewelry. Why should I?” Because she wants you to, Doofus! It’s a gift; a present. Girls like to be surprised. They dream about being given meaningful gifts from 爱d ones and telling their friends it's from you.
  8. “她买了自己的衣服。有什么不同?”参见#7
  9. “I always get her something for the home.” I don’t care what she says, the last thing she wants for her anniversary is a toaster. There is nothing tackier than giving the 爱 of your life a toaster or a couch to commemorate your marriage.
  10. “她有一堆她从未佩戴过的珠宝。她需要的最后一件事是另一枚戒指或一对耳环。”首先,其中80%的东西可能已过时,已损坏并且不能磨损。其次,女人永远不能拥有过多的珠宝。期。再次,请参见#7。
  11. “这根本就没发生过。”好吧...现在你知道了!
  12. “我给她买了结婚戒指。我受够了。对?”偶,杜德!
  13. “I know nothing about jewelry. How do I know I’m not getting ripped off?” Read reviews on the internet; ask co-workers; ask a couple of jewelry 爱rs; ask your wife! Ask me! Clients refer people to 马蹄莲黄金珠宝 每时每刻。
  14. “我不知道在哪里买珠宝。我怎么知道我可以信任他们?”参见#13
  15. “Everybody gets jewelry. I want to do something different.” That’s fine. Do something different. I 爱 doing different things! Take her to Hawaii or rafting down the Colorado. Ride bikes across Europe. In the middle of the trip, though…surprise her with a piece jewelry. Now she'll always be reminded of that something different that you so thoughtfully dreamed up.

女生,如果您的男生恰好适合其中一个或多个类别(或我没有提到的一个类别),请向他显示此博客文章。

您可以做什么
(您现在可以停止阅读,这部分内容是给女士们的)

Let him know you 爱 him and he can actually buy jewelry for you. Hopefully, he’ll take the hint!

令人惊讶的是,足够多的人不通灵,和他说话

给红色首饰礼物盒的非裔美国人的人。男人不买珠宝

女孩子喜欢男人的珠宝礼物!

Occasionally I meet a woman who 爱s jewelry and her husband just doesn't get it. I tell her, "show him your jewelry and tell him how much the pieces gifted to you by your parents, friends or whoever, (don't mention that old boyfriend jewelry) mean to you. Clearly tell him you'd 爱 something special from him because it means more if it comes from him."

Make it easy for him. Make a jewelry wish list and keep it current. Then, you can tell him that secret agent 马蹄莲金 has the encrypted "爱d-jewelry" document under lock and key. All he has to do is call 马蹄莲黄金珠宝Headquarters or your favorite local jeweler and your classified jewelry dreams will be revealed. If you'd like an engagement ring, fill out my quiz and give it to him, your mom and your best friend. 订婚戒指愿望的测验.

在下周日看完那部电影之后,莫西进入您喜欢的珠宝店,并向他展示您喜欢的东西。一些小伙子们需要一种非常直接的方法来改变他们的习惯,从购买钓具到闪闪发光的礼物。

什么是外卖消息?

如果他现在不给您珠宝,请更改您的工作。停止等待,停止暗示,只说您真正想要的。实现它。

您的个人珠宝商,
马蹄莲

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Jacquelin Daugherty
杰奎琳·道格蒂
9年前

Hello 马蹄莲 Great reason. I have a mother in law who my husbands father never buys her one piece of jewelry in 25 years. OMG I could not marryy a man like that. I took time to educate my husband. Like;when we were looking a diamonds. He knows colors, The 3 Cs. I 爱 amythest. He always says to me; you have enought amythest. I say; I could never have enough amythes my dear. He purchased a green amythest. Beautiful Ring. He has the best taste in jewelry. I must say. i TRAINED HIM WELL!! I 爱 your 15 list.… 阅读更多»

Jeremy
9年前

我确保我的妻子得到照顾。我可以看到有多少男人’不能给妻子买生活中美好的事物,但是我妻子很照顾’s for sure.

Kymberly
9年前

您击中了所有大佬马蹄莲!我度过了一段愉快的时光,然后阅读我丈夫为我20周年而给我的白金手链。他’s a keeper!

Dr. Lynn K. Jones
9年前

很棒的博客文章,马蹄莲。我想我们很多人由于您提到的所有原因而真正受到威胁。现在他们知道自己不 ’t have to be!

Daniel Zia
9年前

我认为阻止男人购买珠宝的最大原因是,他们缺乏对产品的了解,正如您在#13中所建议的那样。话虽这么说,我认为Calla在教育消费者方面做得非常出色,尤其是通过这个圣塔芭芭拉珠宝博客(这是一个很好的资源)。谢谢马蹄莲!

Brian Perkins
9年前

哈,棒的马蹄莲!既有趣又真实。我认为您确实在这里打了个头,并提供了很多重要信息。对于像我这样的人来说很不错!

Melissa V.
梅利莎五世
9年前

马蹄莲,看看你的谈话’ve ignited here! You really are my blogging hero. I 爱 that people are sharing stories, and that some spouses are chiming in to give you really valuable ‘market research’ –您的标记正在发挥作用!

David T.C.
大卫·T·C
9年前

马蹄莲
您的网站很棒。这篇博客特别有趣且内容丰富,通常很难找出答案,但是一旦发布便非常高效。话虽这么说!
谢谢!
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toni
托尼
9年前

我已经完成了以上所有操作& so far it’s still been 17yr’s since he’的最后一次买了我,我’放弃了。不过他没问题为自己买东西。顺便说一句,我们结婚已有18年了’s.

Gary
加里
8年前

在号码6上,我将与您有所不同。这绝对是轻浮和不必要的。您相信它“象征永恒的爱”既浅薄又错误。我妻子有一个大型的珠宝摊,上面摆满了老男朋友的珠宝,“love” that has long since died. You want a symbol of undying 爱? Those have to be created from 2 people’在一起的经历,每天更新。毫无意义地在人们垂死并被奴役的挖掘出的贵重金属和宝石上浪费现金并没有’t create a symbol of undying 爱. There is truly only one… 阅读更多»